We have been producing a podcast for the last year+ on downsizing, “Getting Your Edge, Rightsizing Your Home and Life.” We have discussed many aspects of downsizing and the questions that often surround it, These have included real estate conditions, estate sales, RV living, and living as an expat, for a few examples.
Yet, as much as I know about it and as much as I need to downsize, I am not doing it! Why?
Because like so many of the people I encounter and the clients we help, I am afraid. I have the same concerns that they have. So, what are they?
1. The task just seems extremely daunting! Where do I begin? We have so much stuff! (How did that happen?) I know what I need to do. Yet it’s all so overwhelming! I know I need to get rid of a lot of my stuff. But, I don’t want to get rid of all of it. Most of it has meaning to me. Much of it has a story behind it that is part of my life story. Yet I know what it looks like when people wait too long. I have worked with clients who have done that. They often don’t have choices anymore. I am afraid of that, too.
2. Where will we go? There is still a shortage of homes on the market. I am as afraid as the next person of ending up homeless. That is definitely a very scary thought. Fortunately I have the experience and access through my ongoing real estate career to know how to find the most choices.
3. I know I will miss my “Forever” home. We have lived in this home for over 30 years. It is full of “Life Stories” precious to my husband Jim and me. We raised our children here. We did everything to make it “our home” and no matter how much we want to move on, we worry we will miss what we have here too much.
I am going to attempt to face my fears. I am going to start the process. I know from the experiences I’ve had helping others that I want to be able to make my own choices and enjoy this new chapter in my life my way.
I will keep you posted.
Judy Gratton | EDGE Real Estate 